I almost walked out of the house in anger last night. In the end, I only walked into the kitchen, slammed the door and cooked dinner.

But basically Lu's boss told her "not to get her hopes up" as it is very likely that she will miscarry yet. This is the reason that she hasn't done the pregnant worker risk assessments yet - she doesn't see the point.

I thought that it was the most spiteful thing to say. We are both well aware that the chances of a miscarriage at the moment are very high. But we're trying to put that to the back of our minds. And I want Lucie to stay positive right now.

If something similar happens again I might not be able to stop myself and head to Lucie's work to have a go myself. The problem with Lu is that when it comes to work she, in her own words, "doesn't want to rock the boat". I told her that THEY capsized it already.